There are hundreds of sincere honest Russian, Ukrainian and Asian ladies out there who dream to love and be loved. Do not spend your time, money and feelings on scammers!
You must be aware of the fact that there are some individuals online who may try to extract from you some amount in cash playing on your feelings. Be causious and be ready! Let us help you to avoid the situation when you'll loose your money and will be hurt and dissapointed.
All scam patterns have similarities that are very easy to spot if you know what to watch out for:
Usually the contact originates from a personals site where anyone can place his/her ad for free. Most often it was not you who initiated the acquaintance; you received a letter from a lovely Russian female who was interested in you. *Her* description of the partner is always very broad that will fit anybody - "kind intelligent man, age and race don't matter".
Sometimes *she* places a real nice discription and lovely, INNOCENT pictures, with honest eyes and kind smile. You will initiate the acquaintance.
It is always email correspondence; and letters are sent regularly, often every day; a new picture is sent with almost every letter.
*She* pretends she is not interested in your financial status, *she* does not use the word "financially secure" in her description of the desired partner.
Everything what *she* is looking for is a good personality.
Things move very fast, and *she* falls in love with you within 1-4 letters.
In her letters *she* talks a lot about trust, honesty and sincerity.
*She* does not answer your particular questions though she eagerly states she welcomes your curiosity.
Her financial situation is very bad - and she lets you know from the very beginning how little she earns, including the size of her salary even though you never asked about it.
In a few letters you will receive the information that *her* mom, dad, aunti or cat is sick, yes - cat! and she will be busy taking care of them. A smart one will not ask for money directly, but will put you in a situation that if you want to continue correspondence you have to support her.
If you really like the girl and tell her that you want to invite her to come visit you, next letter she will give you the information about visa, medical insurence, tickets. Prices will sound rather scary for you, like $300-500 for visa. a couple of thousand dollars for tickets, a few hundred dollars for insurance...
The majority of scam artists dissapear after receiving money, some continue to be in touch, hoping to get more.
There are a lot of other "red" signes:
the most prominent is the fact that scammers don't really read your letters. They are too busy corresponding with all potential victims. They don't answer your questions. They don't remember what you have written - actually, they don't relate to the content of your letters at all. Those letters could be sent to anybody: "her" letters are pure monologue that becomes more and more obsessed with "her love" to you and her desire to be together with you despite of everything that separates you. There are usually sequences of letters, and they send the same messages to all their correspondents, one by one, making the only change - the man's name (usually it appears only once, or does not appear at all - *she* uses "sweetheart", "my love" etc instead). And of course earlier or later it will end in money request.
Everything that is said above is not a rule, but some patterns that we could experience online.
You can also meet not only a scam master, but fun lovers. These ladies like to travel from one country to another, to spend three months with one guy then one month with another... All costs are paid, new country, new experience, lots of shopping - lots of fun! for her, but not for you if you truly look for long term relations. By the end of her trip, she will inform you that she is not ready to make a commitment and need some time to think it over or that she thinks that you do not correspond to each other.
An avarage regular person can not easily leave the country for three months. If she is employed, it is almost impossible to get 3 months vacation there, even a student can not easily leave the university or college for this period.
But there are hundreds of sincere honest Russian, Ukrainian, Asian ladies who dream to love and be loved, who are truly looking for their soul mates and life partners.
Be causious, be smart, be lucky and you will find you dream date, best friend, passionate lover and caring loving wife!
