Choosing the date
1. Write to as many women as possible.
By writing many women you greatly increase your chances of success. You will also get an idea of what are ladies in that specific region, you will realize better your demands and expactations and will concentrate on searches of that one and only. Btw, more attractive women receive more letters and so when writing to these women it is especially important to write to as many as possible.
2. Do not pay too much attantion to the woman's photo.
Some ladies have proffesional photos and look there much better, and the point that the majority of women do not have proffesional pictures and may look worse on them but quite different in real life - much better! So don't be too easily discouraged from writing to some of the women whose photos may not look perfect.
3. Read the Describtion of Desired Partner.
Often women point out there age and some specific features of her desired partner. You will just waiste your time writing to a lady who is looking for 40 y.o. man from USA, while you are a 20 y.o. guy from Israel.
Letter Writing Tips
1. Keep your first letter short and sweet. Dont overwhelm the lady with a letter that is too wordy and long. Introduce yourself and give her a few reasons why you have chosen to write to her in particular. Complements never hurt but, dont over do it or she will think you are not being sincere. You certainly don't want to be discussing things like marriage and what your children might look like in your first letter! You may want to tell her a little about yourself, where you were raised, and what schools you have attended. Write a little about your interests, hobbies, likes and dislikes. Basically, just write about things that you would normally talk about on a first date.
2. Read her profile carefully and try to comment on what she has taken the time out to write about herself. Dont concentrate too much on her beauty or she will think that you dont want to know her as person.
3. Be patient. Try not to get to frustrated because of the time it takes for the ladies to reply. Some countries still learning to do the regular things we take for granted such as emailing a letter.
4. Pleasant things: learn 20 words in her language and you will be very surprised by her reaction and will have just put yourself 20 steps in front of the guy who didn't learn any words.
Useful Dating Tips
1. Financial Support. Just like anywhere, there are honest people and there are dishonest people. The point of your correspondence is to develop a special relationship with a foreign woman, not to purchase one. You may contact women who will ask you for money for one reason or another. If you are asked for money it should immediately set off alarms and you should proceed very cautiously. There are cases where there may be a serious reason to send money to someone with whom you have been corresponding for some time, but not to somebody you are corresponding for a few weeks and received a few letters the last one was about her bad financial situation and impossibility to go on correspondance unless there is some support from your side.
2. Do include a photo of yourself, and not just any photo. Take some time and put some thought into it. For example, if you are the outdoors type you may want to take it while fishing or diving :). The point is to give the women the best possible representation of yourself.
3. Try including a little something extra to let her know she is special. Maybe a poem or greeting card or just some lovely pictures. The idea is to try and distinguish your response from others.
4. Remember when writing your letter that this woman's native language is not English. That doesn't mean she will not be able to understand your letter, but by keeping it simple you will have a much better chance of successfully communicating with her.
5. Make sure you ask her plenty of questions about herself in your letters. People like to know that others are interested in them and their activities. By asking questions about her she will think that you are interested in her as a person and she will want to respond to you immediately. And you will know more about your date and possibly future wife.
6. You may find it useful to do some independent research on the country of origin of the woman you are interested in. Not only will it impress the woman, but it may save you from committing a gaffe. You must always remember that this woman was raised in a totally different culture than our own. Obviously, it is in your best interest to know as much as possible about that culture.
7. When you get to the point that you want to visit the woman or women you are corresponding with, we recommend that you consider a well respected Foreign Romance Tour Company. Traveling abroad is very different and can be much more dangerous than domestic travel. With a Romance Tour all you have to worry about is meeting the women you are interested in, the Tour Company takes care of all the other details. Even if you are interested in only one woman it makes sense to go with a group simply for the support you will receive. You never know what it-s going to be like once you meet the woman in person. If it doesn-t work out and you are with a Tour Group, you will have many other options to meet other women.
8. The last and probably most important tip of all is be patient. Consider for a moment how long you have been searching for that perfect mate? This is an important process and the results of the decision that you make will be far reaching and long lasting. Take the time to correspond with many different women before committing to that special one. This is probably one of the most important decisions that you will ever make. Be down-to-earth, be patient, be realistic, be smart, and be lucky and you will find you dream date, best friend, passionate lover and caring loving wife!
